Things to think about.
If you were abused by your loved one, would you stay with him/her? Would you?
Yeah, if you were not abused before, you would be like. "OF COURSE I WOULD LEAVE HIM/HER".
But seriously, this person, you so deeply loved, who have been with you for so many years, abused you.. is it so easy to walk away?
Why do some of us willing to stay with the abuser?
Especially those who grow up with parents who abused them.
Is it because of survival, because of the powerful intimate connection even though of a sick level, or what?
I don't know. I hope if I were to be abused..*CHOY*.. I would have the strength to not deny the truth, seek help and walk away.